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The 30th Newsletter
Family Ties in Korea, the Korean Market, and My Spotify Playlists
Hi there
This is your A.thentic Jong Hee.
And this is my 30th Newsletter for you.š
(I can't believe I'm already writing my 30th newsletter.)š³
How are you today?
Howās the weather in your area? Is it summer, or still cold, or does it feel more like spring?
Here in Busan, the weather has been quite chilly these days. This morning, it was -4°C, and day time, itās around 3°C. In Seoul, todayās temperatures ranged from -8°C to 0°C. Itās already late February, but winter still lingers.āļøāļø
But still, I see this as a big sign that spring is just around the corner.
I believe you already this performance, if not, just click and watch it. š¹
Like in this performance of mine, once spring arrives, Iāll spend my days walking under cherry blossom trees, holding a cup of coffee, and soaking in the beautiful weather. I canāt wait for that moment. šøšø
I donāt know why, but this winter has been particularly tough for me. Iāve felt quite down, so Iām eagerly waiting for spring to come.
February 12th of this month was Daeboreum(The First Full Moon of the Lunar New Year), as I posted on Instagram.š
So I purposely went to Gwangalli Beach in Busan, where a festival was being held. Just like last year, many people gathered to watch the Daljip burning ceremony. During the day, there were many traditional Korean games (the kind you might have seen on Netflix, Squid Game), but I couldn't go in the afternoon due to other commitments. Instead, I went in the evening to watch the main event.
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As I mentioned in my Instagram post, Daljip burning is a tradition meant to burn away bad luck and welcome good fortune, wishing for a healthy and happy year. This day marks the first full moon of the lunar year, making it a time to pray for the well-being of oneself and, more importantly, one's family. Since our own happiness is deeply tied to the health and happiness of our loved ones, family, it makes sense.
In this way, Korea has a very strong sense of family bonds. As you may have seen in K-dramas, family is still so often the root of conflicts and struggles in many stories, even today.
Recently, there was a real-life event that truly demonstrated the power of family.
You might have seen it in the news. On December 3rd last year, Koreaās deranged president declared martial law. (But instead of fearing it, we just laughed. Everyone knew he was acting foolishly in a time of peace. And now, heās in prisonājust like Trump, whom Iāve despised from the very beginning.)
Anyway, when martial law was declared, dozens of special forces soldiers stormed the National Assembly with guns. Their goal was to take control of the parliament before lawmakers could vote to dissolve martial law.
However, as soon as news spread that soldiers were heading toward the National Assembly, citizens rushed to block their way. These citizens werenāt armedānot even with knives or clubs. But the soldiers hesitated. Later, it was revealed that even among the special forces, there was a great deal of internal conflict. Many of them knew what they were doing was wrong, and as a result, they struggled to carry out their orders. Thatās why they were unable to push past the unarmed civilians standing in their way.
But there was another group of special forces soldiers who broke through the windows and entered the National Assembly building. Their mission was to capture lawmakers before they could pass the motion to dissolve martial law. As they stormed into the building and tried to reach the main conference hall, they were met with resistanceānot from armed guards, but from the National Assembly Secretariat staff.
Since citizens couldnāt enter the building at that time, these staff members were the ones who stood their ground. They barricaded the hallways with desks and office equipment, doing everything they could to block the soldiers.
And hereās something that was only revealed laterāamong those who gave the soldiers the hardest time were āthe middle-aged womenā working in the Secretariat (administrative office).
As the special forces soldiers tried to push through, these women kept slapping their faces while shouting: "Do you know that I have a son in the military right now? Do you understand?! My son is your age, serving in the army right now, understand that?!ā
Can you imagine what happened? These soldiers were among the most elite, highly trained forcesācapable of carrying out secret operations in North Korea. And yet, they were standing there, getting slapped by mother-like middle-aged women, as if they were children being scolded. Their minds must have been completely thrown into chaos.
In Korea, neither the state nor a military commander holds the highest authority. The ultimate power is our mothers. (I know this firsthandāI served in the military. The hardest part of military service isn't the tough training; it's the longing for family, especially for your mother. Every Korean man who has served will understand this.) š
In the end, the lawmakers successfully passed the motion to dissolve martial law, and the soldiers were forced to withdraw. Some of them, as they were leaving, bowed repeatedly and apologized to the Assembly staff. Even outside the National Assembly, as they retreated, soldiers were seen bowing to citizens, saying they were sorry. And in response, the citizens embraced them and comforted them. This was all captured on the news.
(Many high-ranking generals who gave orders to those soldiers are now all in prison.)
This is the power of family that supports South Korea. šš
Even if I were a soldier, no matter what orders I received from the government or my superior officers, my familyāmy motherāwould always come first. This deeply ingrained sentiment is at the heart of Korea, and perhaps that's why I love my country so much.
Okay, now, below are photos from a Waffle CafĆ© I discovered late last year. š§
I visited this cafƩ a few weeks ago and went again yesterday, on Saturday.
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The sweetness of the Nutella waffle was dangerously intense. Maybe thatās why, despite todayās temperature being around 2°C (but feeling below freezing due to the strong wind), I still went jogging outside.šš»š¦
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While most people were bundled up against the cold sea breeze, I still insisted on wearing shorts for my run throughout the winter. Even when I lived in Seoul, I used to jog near my home wearing shortsāsometimes even short sleevesādespite the much colder winters there.āļøāļø
Why? Honestly, Iām not sure. Maybe itās just because I warm up once I start running, so I never saw the need for heavy clothing. Thatās probably the reason.
Lastly, here are some photos from the traditional market I visited yesterday, on Saturday. Since this market is close to Haeundae Beach, itās always packed with tourists. It mainly sells street food like tteokbokki (spicy rice cakes) and eomuk (fish cakes), along with lots of side dishes that go well with alcohol.
But if you go deeper into the local area, thereās another traditional market with a different atmosphere. That one focuses more on ingredients for cooking Korean dishesāthings like kimchi-making supplies, traditional seasonings, and banchan (side dish) ingredients.š§ š§š¶ Itās a completely different scene compared to this tourist-friendly market.
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Oh, I almost forgot! Next Friday (February 28th), my new single album will be released. This time, itās not a piano albumāitās an instrumental track from a different genre. šµšµ
Hereās the link to my Spotify Artist Page. If you follow me there, youāll get notifications when my new songs are released. (And trust me, that kind of support means a lot to me.)š¹š
Also, since I had trouble sleeping again last night (lately, my sleepless nights are becoming more frequent, but I believe itāll get better), I created my very first playlists on Spotify:
šµ Midnight Piano: Deep Reflection
šµ A Story Told in Pianoš¹
I also made a playlist called āCity Night Lofi: Chill & Reading Vibesā, but for some reason, the link isnāt showing up yet. Iāll post it on my Instagram story once itās fixed.
Iād love for you to listen to the playlists I made. When I write or need inspiration for a certain emotion, I often listen to my own music. It would be nice to think that weāre listening together.
Okay, Thank you for reading my 30th newsletter.
I remember everyone who replies after reading my newsletter, and I really appreciate it.
Wishing you a happy and healthy week ahead!
Looking forward to seeing you here again.
Warm Regards,
A.thentic Jong Hee